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Understand What Is Happening
Develop a deeper understanding of the emotional dynamics behind your child's behaviour and why some well-intentioned responses can unintentionally create more distance.
The Back To You Method™
A Structured, Child-Centred Method for Protecting, Strengthening, and Rebuilding the Parent–Child Relationship — During and After Separation
The Back To You Method™ was created to help parents navigate separation with greater clarity, confidence, and hope. Small, intentional changes in the way parents communicate and respond can strengthen trust and rebuild the parent–child relationship over time.
Whenever it is safe and possible,
every child deserves a meaningful relationship with both parents.
The Roadmap
The Five Stages of the Back To You Method™
A practical, child-centred journey that helps parents navigate separation with greater clarity, confidence, and hope—one stage at a time.
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Steady Yourself
Develop emotional stability and resilience. A calmer parent creates a safer relationship
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Understand the Dynamic
Recognise the patterns and influences affecting the parent-child relationship and learn where to focus your energy.
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Rebuild Communication
Learn practical ways to communicate through messages, letters, and conversations that feel emotionally safe, respectful, and free from pressure.
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Reconnect and Sustain
Build lasting trust through patience, consistency, and small moments of genuine connection.
Our Foundations
Why the Method Works
The Back To You Method™ replaces emotional reactions with thoughtful, child-centred actions—creating the conditions for trust, connection, and lasting change.
Child-Centred
Every step is guided by the child's safety, emotional wellbeing, and developmental needs.
Calm over Confrontation
We encourage calm, respectful communication instead of emotional reactions that can unintentionally increase conflict.
Connection over Conflict
The focus is not on winning conflict, but on protecting and strengthening the parent–child relationship..
Designed for Lasting Change
Meaningful relationships are rebuilt over time through patience, consistency, and intentional actions.
Professional & Practical
Grounded in professional experience, practical guidance, and a structured approach that parents can apply in everyday life.
The Origin Story
How the Method Was Created
The Back To You Method™ has evolved through years of professional work with families experiencing separation and parent–child relationship challenges. It brings together knowledge from education, child development, psychology, coaching, and practical experience to provide parents with a clear, structured path forward.
Professional Experience
Built Through Practice
The method has evolved through years of professional work supporting families experiencing separation and parent-child relationship challenges.
Knowledge & Research
Bringing Disciplines Together
It combines knowledge from education, child development, psychology, coaching, and current research into one practical, child-centred framework.
Continuous Development
Always Evolving
The Back To You Method™ continues to develop through professional practice, ongoing learning, research, and the experiences of the families it serves.
Leadership
Meet the Founder - Uliana Feldserov
Master of Education, Family Separation Specialist, Solution-Focused Therapist, and Doctoral Researcher
Uliana Feldserov's professional background brings together education, family support, coaching, and research, guided by a long-term commitment to protecting the parent–child relationship during and after separation.
Alongside her professional work, Uliana has experienced family separation from both perspectives.
As a child, she grew up separated from one of her parents. Years later, after her own separation, she experienced the profound pain of becoming a rejected parent herself. Rebuilding the relationship with her own child became one of the experiences that helped shape the Back To You Method™ and deepened her understanding of what children and parents need when relationships come under strain.
Today, her vision is to build the Back To You Method™ into an internationally recognised framework that supports families, professionals, and organisations around the world.
Your Journey Starts Here
Ready to Take the First Step?
Every family is different. That's why we begin with a short application to understand your situation and determine whether the Back To You Method™ is the right fit for you.
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Apply for Support
Complete a short, confidential application describing your family situation and what you're hoping to achieve.
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Application Review
We'll carefully review your application. If the Back To You Method™ is a good fit, we'll invite you to a complimentary 30-minute consultation.
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Begin Your Journey
Together, we'll create a personalised roadmap to help protect, strengthen, and rebuild your relationship with your child.
Apply for Support
Completely confidential & secure.